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Anal Fisting ((BETTER))

The person who is inserting their hand is called the fister and the person receiving is called the fistee. Despite the term's name, the hand is not actually in a fist position during insertion. To slide the hand inside the anal cavity past the anus, the fingers are extended and overlapping in a cone shape, sometimes referred to duck-billing or the "silent duck."

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Gradual insertion stretches the anus to accommodate the fingers, knuckles, hand and thumb, until eventually retracting again around the wrist. Once the hand has fully entered the rectum, the fingers can be moved or clenched into a fist. Anal fisting is mainly a partnered activity, though some people can achieve the act during masturbation.

Fisting's emergence as a popular sexual practice is commonly attributed to gay male culture and it may not have existed until the twentieth century.[3][4][5] Robert Morgan Lawrence, a sex educator, however, believes the practice dates back thousands of years.[6] The most famous fisting club in the world was the Catacombs, located in San Francisco, which operated during the 1970s and 1980s.[7] The Handball Express was another such club.[8] Crisco was commonly used as a lubricant, before more specialized personal lubricants became available.

The San Francisco South of Market Leather History Alley consists of four works of art along Ringold Alley honoring leather culture; it opened in 2017.[10][11] One of the works of art is metal bootprints along the curb which honor 28 people who were an important part of the leather communities of San Francisco; those honored include Steve McEachern, owner of the fisting club the Catacombs, and Bert Herman, leader of the fisting community, author, and publisher.[10][11]

The "silent duck", also called "duck-billing", is the technique often used in which the person engaging in hand insertion shapes the hand to resemble a duck's beak. Typically, fisting does not involve forcing the clenched fist into the vagina or rectum; this is a practice called "punching". Instead, all five fingers are kept straight and held as close together as possible (forming the beak-like "duck"), then slowly inserted into a well lubricated vagina or rectum.[1]

Fistees who are more experienced may take two fists (double-fisting). In the case of double-fisting, pleasure is derived more from the stretching of the anus or vagina than from the thrusting (in-and-out) movement of hands.[1]

Anal fisting carries risks of colorectal perforation; participants are advised to use latex gloves and lubricant,[18] and designate a safeword, the utterance of which will call an immediate halt to the activity. The practice, along with the insertion of hard objects into the anus, has been significantly related to the traumatization of the rectal mucosa in increasing the likelihood of infection, including Hepatitis B.[19]

In the United Kingdom fisting is legal to perform;[20] however, the Crown Prosecution Service considers publication of fisting material to be grounds for prosecution under the Obscene Publications Act 1959.[21] Despite the CPS's guidance, in the case of R v Peacock in 2012, Michael Peacock was found not guilty of breaching the Obscene Publications Act for selling DVDs containing anal fisting.[22] There was also an unsuccessful extreme pornography prosecution in 2012 where it was argued by the prosecution that images of anal fisting constitute extreme pornography and thus are illegal to possess because the act is "likely to result in serious injury to a person's anus, breasts or genitals".[20]

The short answer is: Yes. As with any sexual act, however, people will respond differently. Not everyone will orgasm from fisting, and for those who do, it can happen in different ways. Some only need anal stimulation while others may require or prefer pressure applied to other pleasure zones.

For those looking to add something exciting to their sexual repertoire, anal fisting can be fulfilling emotionally and mentally in addition to physically. Some may want to combine it with other sexual fantasies, such as BDSM or double penetration, for a more unique sexual experience.

Anal fisting should not be painful. If it is, stop and revisit the preparation steps. Training your anus as discussed earlier will reduce any pain. Note that the use of poppers, desensitizing lubes, and/or alcohol/drugs can give a false sense of acceptance and are not recommended for first-timers.

If anal fisting is something you partake in on a regular basis, there is the possibility that your muscles will weaken over time. That said, there are strategies to prevent this, as well as to recover after looseness has occurred. These include services such as anal elasticity, anal botox, anal manometry, and the Emsella chair.

Anal fisting can be a pleasurable experience between consenting partners that leads to increased physical and emotional intimacy. If you do decide to try it out, be sure to follow the above anal fisting tips to prepare both parties for the best experience possible. To learn more about preparation, aftercare, or other aspects, contact the trusted experts at Bespoke Surgical.

The chances of your muscles weakening after regular sessions of anal fisting can be high. So to avoid this, you can invest in services like anal botox, anal elasticity, Emsella chair, or anal manometry.

With so much misinformation out there when it comes to sex, it's crucial to turn to good sources to get your content before exploring new sexual territory. One of the most important sexual act that needs full, correct, explaining is anal fisting.

Luckily we here at b-Vibe have you covered. Here is everything you need to know about anal fisting, how to anal fist safely, and the mishaps you can avoid with proper preparation and practice.

Anal fisting is when one partner inserts their entire hand into the anus of the other. Despite the name, the "fister" does not make a fist with their hands before inserting it into the anal opening. Making a fist would be dangerous (and probably painful).

The first question we often get "Is anal fisting safe?" Yes, however, it's a more advanced form of anal play and should not be tried by those new to butt stuff. Anal fisting requires communication, anatomical understanding, and a lot of experience.

If you're a newbie, we recommend that you start off with an anal massage, and then progress to anal fingering and butt plugs to get your anus ready for larger objects. Do not attempt to try anal fisting until you're ready emotionally and equipped with enough knowledge and experience to do it correctly.

While vaginal fisting may seem more manageable, this too is not for beginners. Without proper practice and knowledge, you could cause pain or tears. Fisting of any kind is an advanced form of sexual play.

While the chances of STI transmission are about the same with regular fingering, a whole hand is much larger than a finger so there's an increased risk of tearing. Tears in the delicate anal tissues can mean a higher risk of contracting an STI. If you're worried about this (or, you know, getting poop on your hand), you can totally wear latex gloves while engaging in this play. It can be kind of hot, actually. It's a good way to get a whole doctor/ patient roleplay in on the fisting play.

For the receiver, you want to be sure that you've had a bowel movement within the last few hours before fisting. It isn't essential to use an enema bulb for a 'deeper clean,' but if it makes you feel better (and sexier), go for it! For more on proper hygiene, check out our complete guide on how to prepare for anal.

Lube is a must in all sexual play, but it's so, so, SO important when doing anal fisting. Your hand is a larger object. The anus doesn't naturally stretch the way a vagina does. Be sure that you are LUBING UP big time. This is not a joke. If you don't use lube, you could end up in the hospital with tears or anal fissures. We know this isn't the sexiest thing ever, but you need to know the facts.

For anal fisting, the best lube is silicone-based lube. Why? Because they're latex-compatible and super slippery. You won't need to reapply as much as you would with a water-based lubricant. Be sure to choose a silicone lube that's as natural as possible. We are obsessed with the System JO Silicone-Based Anal Lube. It's a game-changer for anal fisting. We're also a big fan of The Butters Palm Grease Ultra-Thick Lube.

Look, you cannot have good, pleasurable anal play (or sex play of any kind) without a ton of communication. When you engage in anal fisting, be sure you're fully communicating with your partner. It should NOT hurt. If you're feeling pain, stop what you're doing and reassess. Maybe anal fisting isn't working for you today. That's OK. Do something else. Try a butt plug. Maybe you just need a break. That's OK. Take a break. Communication is lubrication.

Do NOT do this. Take it super slow, communicate the whole time, and breathe. Remember that if anything doesn't feel right or feels painful, or you decide that you don't want to do anal fisting anymore, that's fine. You have the right to revoke consent at any time, whether you're giving or receiving.

Once your anus feels ready, have them slowly enter your anus with their hand. Once you get past the knuckles, there's no need to "push" any further. The second anal ring will naturally draw the rest of the hand inside.

There are even toys that mimic fisting! This can be a great way to first try this kind of play. If you're new to anal, we recommend that you learn how to anal masturbate by yourself first. If you're a butt toy veteran, something bigger might be exciting and new. We here at b-Vibe have an amazing fisting toy that you should add to your must-haves list ASAP.

The Stuffer looks exactly like a hand that is about to fist (it's actually a good model to look at even if you're using a hand instead of a toy). Even looking at it is a turn-on for would-be fisters, tbh. To use it, follow the same fisting instructions as above. Lube it up (liberally, seriously there is no such thing as too much lube during anal), and insert it into the anus slowly. 041b061a72


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